In our modern world, comfort often becomes the default setting. We strive for convenience, avoid discomfort, and seek quick fixes. But what if true growth, resilience, and self-discovery come from embracing the hard things?

 Enter Misogi—an ancient Japanese ritual that embodies challenging oneself beyond comfort. Historically, it involves practices like cold water immersion, fasting, or strenuous physical activity—acts designed to purify the body, mind, and spirit. Today, Misogi has evolved into a broader concept: a deliberate act of confronting intense discomfort to foster personal growth. The core idea behind Misogi is not about endurance for endurance’s sake but about using challenge as a pathway to clarity, resilience, and self-awareness. It’s a powerful ritual that pushes individuals beyond their perceived limits, helping them to shed limiting beliefs and mental barriers. 

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The core of Misogi aligns perfectly with the mindset of challenging yourself and doing hard things. Jesse Itzler, a notable entrepreneur and adventurer, emphasizes that embracing discomfort leads to breakthrough moments. Similarly, Michael Easter’s "The Comfort Crisis" explores how seeking out challenges and discomfort is essential for personal evolution. When you challenge yourself, you rewiring your brain’s response to adversity. You develop grit, stamina, and the mental toughness necessary to navigate life’s inevitable difficulties. The question is: why not make these challenges intentional, ritualistic, and meaningful? 

Why Do Hard Things? Doing hard things isn’t just about physical endurance; it’s about mental resilience, emotional strength, and the sharpening of character. Here’s why embracing hard things, like a Misogi, can positively transform your life:

  • Builds Resilience: Overcoming difficult challenges makes you more adaptable and able to handle future setbacks.
  • Boosts Confidence: Proving to yourself that you can face adversity enhances self-belief.
  • Clarifies Priorities: Stripping away comfort reveals what truly matters.
  • Fosters Growth: Challenges facilitate learning, innovation, and self-discovery.
  • Creates a Ritual of Transformation: Marking a period in your life with a significant challenge helps define your year and set a new standard for what’s possible.

     How to Incorporate Misogi Into Your Life Ready to challenge yourself and do hard things? Here are actionable steps to embrace the art of Misogi and turn it into a meaningful ritual:
  • 1. Define Your Purpose Identify why you want to undertake a Misogi. Is it to improve your mental toughness, commemorate a milestone, or develop a new skill? Clarity on purpose will keep you motivated. 
  •  2. Set a Clear and Achievable Challenge Your Misogi should push you but also be within your ability to complete. Examples include: - Cold water plunge for a set duration - Completing a strenuous physical challenge like a marathon or a month of daily workouts - Fasting or abstaining from a particular comfort (social media, sugar) for a set period - Practicing daily meditation or journaling in the cold
  • 3. Prepare Mentally and Physically Build up gradually. If cold plunges are new to you, start with luke-warm water and decrease the temperature over time. If physical, train consistently. Setting a foundation ensures success.
  • 4. Make It Ritualistic Turn your challenge into a recurring ritual—a yearly event, quarterly check-in, or monthly habit—so it becomes a milestone, a marker to reflect on your evolution. 
  •  5. Embrace Discomfort Expect discomfort. That’s the point. Use that moment to breathe, reflect, and reinforce your commitment. Remember, it’s about growth, not just grit. 
  •  6. Reflect and Reset After completing your Misogi, take time to reflect. What did you learn? How did you grow? Use these insights to set new challenges.

    Here are some inspiring ideas to get you started: The Cold Water Challenge:Submerge yourself in ice-cold water for 3 minutes for 30 days.
    The Physical Everest: Train for and climb a mountain or run a marathon with a specific goal.
    The Digital Fast: Detox from all digital screens and social media for an entire weekend.
    The Silence Retreat: Spend 24 hours in silence, meditating, or in nature.

    The Transformational Power of Doing Hard Things In conclusion, Misogi is more than a ritual; it’s a philosophy that encourages us to challenge ourselves and do hard things intentionally. Inspired by thought leaders and rooted in ancient practices, Misogi acts as a catalyst to deepen resilience, sharpen focus, and foster a profound sense of achievement. When you embrace the discomfort, you embrace growth. So, why not make this year the one where you conquer a Misogi? Use it to challenge yourself, do hard things, and mark your journey to becoming a stronger, wiser, more resilient human. Remember, growth lies on the other side of discomfort—step into it.

    Take Action Today Choose your challenge, set your intention, and start your Misogi journey. The hardest part is often just taking the first step. Embrace the challenge. Challenge yourself. Do hard things. Your best self is waiting.
Written by Chance Gilbert

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